Learn how to compliment girls you like. Compliments is one of the most powerful tool you have in your arsenal if you can use it effectively. I'll teach you how to compliment the right way and how to make your woman melt with it. #1 - Consider who is giving the compliment
The most powerful compliments are given by someone who you respect and trust as a reliable source of information. This means that if you can frame yourself as a HIGH VALUE guy with actual standards, then your compliments will come across that much more powerful.
Balance out your compliments with negative expressions.
You can even do some push pull in the same compliment.
Delivery (are you very enthusiastic about it? Versus more nonchalant like it's normal for you)
#2 - Be different with your compliments, Deep personality compliment
The number one mistake that most guys make when complimenting girls is giving generic compliments that everyone gives.
For example, her eyes, tits, ass.
These can be powerful but only in the right moments.
What's better is to be more selective with your compliments and reward her inner values.
Remember this:
The more closely she identifies with the value, the more powerful the compliment will be.
For example for party girls, you can compliment them on being adventurous, fun, spontaneous, funny.
Whereas for ambitious independent girls, you can compliment them on being independent, ambitious, driven, different to every other girl.
#3 - Frame her to have qualities you want her to have
This is a really powerful way to let people know your expectations and personal preference.
For example, if you want a girl to be open minded, adventurous, then you can compliment her on being that.
This will create commitment and consistency bias so she'll be more inclined to act in align with the agreed frames.
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For 2 years now, I've been working as a full time personal development and dating coach, travelling to many countries holding seminars, and coaching guys from an array of cultural backgrounds.
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